Things that lead to burnout!

[taken from techrepublic and directed at IT professionals]

1: Never say no

As the saying goes, “You can’t please all of the people all of the time.” Trying to do so will result in certain failure due to over commitment, missed deadlines, and having everyone upset in the attempt to make everyone happy. Instead, commit to pleasing “some of the people some of the time,” through existing governance structures.

2: Skip the vacation

American workers get and use less vacation than our global counterparts. This is a travesty, but it’s one over which workers might exercise some control. Time away from the office is absolutely essential for recharging the batteries and renewing the spirit. Failure to “get away from it all” leaves workers with no opportunity for renewal and can also negatively affect family and personal relationships.

3: Skip lunch

Early in my IT career, I used to work through lunch every day. I didn’t feel like I needed it, and I was more interested in getting work done than in eating. However, I soon learned that lunch is about more than lunch. Everyone needs food to make it through the day, and that short break can be as good as a 15-minute catnap in helping you remain productive the rest of the day. If you constantly skip lunch, you’re also missing an opportunity to engage with coworkers in a different setting. Over time, failure to take these short breaks might make you more easily stressed out — and eventually burned out.

4: Work insane hours

Logic would seem to indicate that you could accomplish twice as much in 80 hours per week than in 40. At some point, more time results in diminishing returns. If you push it too much, you’ll end up constantly tired and sick and not doing anyone any good. There will probably be crunch times during the year when crazy hours will be the norm and expected. But if this happens year round, your organization will quickly burn itself out. Constantly working crazy, insane hours should not be a point of pride. It should be a sign that something is wrong and a warning that you’ll probably get burned out at some point.

5: Disregard family time

For years, articles have been written about jealousy between those with families who need “family time” and those without families who are left to “pick up the slack.” Those with families who attempt to forgo family time will pay the price in a lot of ways. Stress levels will increase as they try to make up for this lost time. And those all-important family ties will begin to suffer, leading to an employee who is bitter and disengaged and wondering why he can’t ever eat with his kids. If you want to avoid burnout, embrace and enjoy time with your family.

6: Fail to watch your health

How many of you exercise every day? How many of you watch every calorie you eat? How many of you weigh more than you did when you started your current job? This is one rule I’ve broken so badly it’s not even funny. Since leaving my previous position, I’ve made it a point to eat better and have started losing weight. If you’re in a stressful job, you may be a “stress eater,” and you may suffer from the fact that stress can lead to weight gain and other health problems if not properly managed. So do what you can to get some exercise (take the stairs, walk to lunch, etc.) and try to eat better and not chow down on junk food while you work. This is much easier said than done!

7: Forgo hobbies

For me, tech started as a hobby before becoming my career. But I sometimes wonder if I need something else outside IT to keep me going. I’m an IT executive by position, but I love playing with tech toys every so often. That’s one of the reasons I write. I get to learn more and play with cool new stuff. Find something you enjoy doing and make a point of doing it!

8: Go it alone

Find a network of peers in other similar organizations and work together, if possible.
Use consultants when you need to. Not everything needs to be “built here.”

9: Create unrealistic expectations

Expectation management is one of the hardest things to get right. You need to make sure that people realize you’re working with a sense of urgency. But at the same time, you don’t want to burn yourself out or overtax your staff. If you create unrealistic expectations by overpromising or under-delivering, you’re going to stress yourself out to the point of exhaustion.

10: Pull all-nighters

When I would pull all-nighters to get a job done, I unintentionally set an expectation that this is the norm when, in fact, it’s not. Constant all-nighters are a sign that something is terribly wrong. Either your organization has no clue how to schedule work or you’ve taken on too much. Fix it before you burn yourself out. Sure, the occasional all-nighter may still happen from time to time — but don’t let it become routine.

“My Hope Is In You” lyrics – Third Day

To you, O Lord, I lift my soul
In you, O God, I place my trust
Do not let me be put to shame
Nor let my enemies triumph over me

My hope is in you
Show me your ways
Guide me in Truth
In all my days
My hope is in you

I am, O Lord, filled with your love
You are, O God, my salvation
Guard my life and rescue me
My broken spirit shouts
My mended heart cries out…

A Comparison: The cost of your lunch versus a meal provided by FMSC

This week at my church we’re excited to pack meals with a great organization – Feed My Starving Children. We have multiple sessions planned with a goal of 240 volunteers each session. It’s a big deal! And LOTS of fun. How often do you get to see fairly simple manual labor by children and grandparents and everyone in between become meals that will feed many hungry kids in desperate need? AND you get to wear a great hairnet…

Want to look at some photos?

So, I started thinking about the benefits of the program and wondering how it gets funded. According to the FMSC website, most of the funding comes from individuals – then churches and corporations. These meals have been developed nutritionally based on research to provide the best content for the kids. And guess how much one of the meals costs to produce? A quarter… 25 cents…

When I went out to get myself some lunch today, I started thinking about the world hunger issues. As I was ordering my Chick-fil-a meal, I thought about how easily I toss around a quarter. That’s usually less than the up charge between drink sizes. And for the cost of my meal today at least 25 kids could have been fed from the FMSC meals. Let’s see – one first world meal for me or 25 nutritious meals for starving children… Hmmm…

Can we solve world hunger? Apparently the technology is there to produce efficient feeding programs. I guess we just don’t have the funds – while I go through the drive-thru to get my lunch.

Disclaimer: Chick-fil-a is one of my favorite fast food places. I used them only because that’s where I had lunch today – and I am a frequent customer.

Here by Kari Jobe

See the video – “Here” by Kari Jobe

Come and rest here
Come and lay your burdens down
Come and rest here
There is refuge for you now

You’ll find His peace
And know you’re not alone anymore
He is near
You’ll find His healing
You’re heart isn’t shattered anymore
He is here

Breathe in
Breathe out
You will
You will find Him here

I will rest in You

You will find Him
You will find Him here
You will find Him
You will find Him here

5 Minute Challenge – Iraq

Sectarian violence caused tens of thousands of Christians to leave the country in 2011. Christians feel that the government fails to protect them, with individuals being threatened, robbed, raped or kidnapped and churches being bombed. Iraq’s constitution says each individual has freedom of thought, conscience and belief, but there is no article on changing one’s religion and Islamic law forbids conversion of Muslims to other religions. In August, at least four churches were targeted by bomb attacks in Kirkuk. The situation in Kurdistan, for a long time considered a safe haven for Christians, has deteriorated due to Islamic extremism.

Pray:

  • For the many Christian refugees who have been displaced from their homes by religious violence
  • For wise leadership and government to bring Christians justice and protection from terrorist groups
  • For Open Doors workers training trauma counsellors to help children and families affected by persecution.

from Open Doors – World Watch List

Many are familiar with Iraq due to the war, yet there is much more to this country.

In early times, Iraq was known as Mesopotamia, which means the land between the rivers—the Tigris and Euphrates. Some scholars believe that the Garden of Eden was located here. The area between the Tigris and Euphrates rivers is noted as the ‘cradle of civilization’ and is the place where writing, law and even the wheel were invented. Today, soccer is the most popular sport in Iraq, while an instrument called the oud (similar to a lute) and a rebab (similar to a fiddle) are the most popular instruments. Some popular dishes include Kebab Shawarma, Bamia (lamb, okra and tomato stew), and Falafel.

An oud - a popular Iraqi musical instrumenta popular sport

a popular sport

Are you willing to sign your name and stand for freedom?

 

Ask Obama to help end slavery!

IJM is asking for 27,000 people to sign this online petition – to represent the 27 MILLION slaves in our world today.

Will you be one?

The Super Bowl

It’s coming – Feb 5th – Giants and Patriots – in Indiana

I LOVE football – but don’t know much about the NFL. We tend to care more about college football here in Alabama.

Here’s the thing – the biggest event for traffickers in the U.S. each year is the Super Bowl. Isn’t that sad?

I just saw two articles about this in Greenwood, Indiana. You can find them here and here. The first article tells about police education and preparation as the Super Bowl approaches. They have already arrested some traffickers in the area. The second link talks about a local church and their efforts to help local hotel workers and other citizens be aware of and report suspicious activity – as well as providing hotline information for those who are trafficked into the area.

 

How can we fight modern-day slavery? Tell me.

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Fitness 2012

Well…I’m setting some goals for myself in the fitness area. I’ve picked a goal for exercise, a semi-goal for drinking water, and an idea about food. I have put some thought into this, and maybe I’ll chat about it sometime – but for now I’m just posting this on the Internet for the world to see. 🙂 Follow along or join me if you want…

Here’s the exercise goal for the year. It’s an idea proposed by my friend Cory. Walk or bike 1000 miles. It doesn’t sound so hard until you start doing the math. That’s averaging a 5k EVERY DAY from now until next year. Good grief!!! — However, I’m not going to be overwhelmed with it. I’m just going to take it one day at a time. I’ve started a log on this site. You can check on my progress every now and then. Since I’m starting a little late in January, I’m going to grandfather in the 5k I did on Jan 7th in the Red Nose Run for Ronald McDonald House.

The water drinking semi-goal is just to drink more than was my habit in 2011 – actually to drink some water is a change for me. I love me some Dr. Pepper. 🙂 So far, so good with the water drinking. I’ve managed to average somewhere in the 50 ounces/day range. I’ve got a cute water.org bottle with a camelbak bite valve and a filter in it. No excuses…

Food is an interesting one. My idea is to eat more healthily. I know that sounds weak – and it doesn’t fit the measurable part of proper goal-setting; hence just the idea. Anywho…it’s what I’m setting my goal to be. I’m not going to ‘rules and regulation’ all over myself on this one based on the following verse.

I Cor 8:8 The Message
But fortunately God doesn’t grade us on our diet.
We’re neither commended when we clean our plate nor reprimanded when we just can’t stomach it.

Margin

A margin is part of the page that you intentionally leave blank. You don’t write all the way from on edge of the page to the other. White space is typically left all the way around, and we call those margins. This makes what is written on the page easier to read; it gives clarity.

Everything in our American culture is telling us to ignore margins. Stay busy. Don’t stop. Microwave your fast food. You must have the latest gadget and fad. Keep up!

Spend more money than you make and you will have no financial margin.
Fill your schedule from early morning until late night—and you will have no time margin. Surround yourself with needy people and constantly react to their expectations—and you will have no emotional margin.

Mark Batterson wrote, “You need margin to think. You need margin to play. You need margin to laugh. You need margin to dream. You need margin to have impromptu conversations. You need margin to seize unanticipated opportunities.”

I want to live a life with margins.

With financial margin I can respond in the moment to a need; I can give generously and cheerfully.

With time margin I am flexible to help or listen or wait or just be with someone.

Margin makes you pleasant  instead of cross.
Margin allows you to be generous instead of Scrooge-like.
Margin helps you listen instead of seeming not to care.
Margin gives you the space to live instead of just getting by.
Margin increases the chance you will hear the still small voice of God when He speaks.

Where are you feeling the lack of margin in your life? What should change?

how to create margin…

  • Carve time in your week for margin.
  • Tithe,  save and pay your bills – live beneath your means.
  • Know yourself; take time for self-care.
  • Choose relationships wisely. Avoid those who take without giving!
  • Periodically go dark; turn off the noise. Be intentional to listen to God, others, and yourself.